The #metoo movement and female empowerment are many things. The #metoo movement opened Pandora’s box and suddenly, a lot of issues women were facing got highlighted. The issue that struck out the most for me is women bashing by other women.
As women, we should all be about celebrating women as a woman and not bashing or excluding another woman due to jealousy or whatever reason there may be. As fellow women, we are sisters.
There are many issues the #metoo movement has brought about – positive and negative. I don’t always agree with some of the modern feminist ideas but there are many positive aspects that has enforced change in how we react as women to bullying and sexual harassment. Not only to women but also to men as well on how they should react to a woman being bullied or sexually harassed/ exploited.
Within women, the idea of the #metoo movement has brought about great change and courage. That is what I would like to focus on when I think about the movement. Women are not who they used to be ten years ago because of the #metoo movement.
I watched an interview on Megan Fox and Diablo Cody which got me thinking deeply about how some women are brought down by others because of how beautiful and intelligent they are. It almost seems as if you can’t be both.
Megan Fox was a product of a predominantly male industry which shaped her image to be one of sexuality. Sex sells. What can I say to that?
She seemed to have fallen off the radar after what she said about Michael Bay overworking the actors in the film Transformers and compared him to dictators.
The backlash brought about the downfall of Megan Fox’s popularity and possibly the opportunity for major roles as compared to what she has been starring in for the last ten years.
In the interview, she said that she didn’t feel like there was a space in feminism for her. I imagine that when she spoke out against what was happening to her on set and how Michael Bay cast her when she was just 15 years old in a sexually enticing scene (in another movie), everyone, including women, called her ungrateful. Especially since he made her famous in Transformers.
If she had spoken out now instead of back then, she wouldn’t have faced such a backlash. She was way beyond her time.
As human beings, we need to look into things deeper. We shouldn’t judge a book just by its cover.
It is so tremendously shallow to think that a woman is the way she is by how she looks and this, not only coming from men but also from women. Women against women.
Why do women bring down other women?
It was so incredibly shattering when she said that she never felt like she belonged in that group who call themselves feminists even though she considered herself a feminist.
As a woman, when you hear another woman say something like that, it draws your attention to the glaring flaws of being human and the hypocrisy of some women who call themselves feminists.
Megan Fox is a great actress. Unfortunately, she was stereotyped and not given enough opportunities as an actress to show what she is really made of. I can only hope that things will change for her soon.
In interviews, you can clearly see she is more than just a pretty face. There is substance and a great personality which makes up who she is as a human being. Her looks and her body shouldn’t define her. It is just 1/3 of the equation. A human being is complex and everyone knows that. So why are there still people bashing her and other women like her?
We are all individuals who come with our own deep seated issues and my only answer to that is the possibly inferiority complex women who bash others have. That is why we need to speak up and bring awareness to this issue.
It is only by talking a storm out of a problem that allows it to gain attention and reflection.
As women or as human beings, we need to realise that our words have the power to break someone else. That someone could be a daughter, a sister or even a mother. Don’t ruin someone else just because you think you are right.
More on the interview by ET Live that inspired this article here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u2JLRtWlq0o